Ready for your next adventure in single life? You’ve picked out the outfit, gotten the haircut, gathered your buddies and your breath mints. Why not take a few minutes to consider your flirting technique before you head out? Here are a few ideas:

1. Master the art of eye contact. You know when it’s happening. You’re looking at him; now he’s looking at you; now you’re looking away. Now you’re looking again; now he caught you looking. It’s the popular and dreaded game. Popular because it’s fun and dreaded because now what do you do? Once you’re sure you’re both playing the game, try acknowledging it. Wave, smile or make some non-threatening gesture to the one you’re checking out. Don’t mouth any words, though; very few people can read lips and who knows what they’ll think you’re trying say?

2. Take the direct approach. Want to learn the greatest pick-up line? The one that’s mature, sophisticated, charming and versatile? Here it is: “Hi, my name is…” Just follow with the conversation of your choice. Easy enough? Straightforwardness is refreshing and doesn’t leave you with an image to maintain. A friend of mine was once charmed silly by a guy who approached her in a store and asked, “Will you be my friend?” It takes a particular personality and audience to pull that one off, but you get the idea.

3. Drop all pretense and be yourself. Just because you’re flirting doesn’t mean you need to put on your Don Juan/Juana alter ego. There’s nothing creepier than flirting with someone who isn’t visible beneath the charm. Be yourself and flirt in the spaces in between. (You’re trying to meet someone who actually likes you, right?)

4. Wag that silver tongue. Don’t pass up the opportunity to make one honest, original, tasteful, cheese-free compliment: “You smile like you’re really having a great time.” Don’t press the point or pile on other compliments; just let the conversation move on. If you can pull it off gracefully, everyone loves hearing about themselves without being put on the spot.

5. Begin with body language. Be aware of body language — both yours and your potential match’s. Does she lean in or pull away? Are you both facing each other? Are his legs crossed? This is the physical level of flirting, and if you’re both into it, it’s great fun. Moving into and away from each other’s space, people gently test the degree of mutual comfort and attraction. Don’t take any touching lightly or rush into someone’s space. A friendly touch on the shoulder or elbow, approached slowly, gives both of you a second to notice and appreciate that first casual physical contact.

6. Remember the kid in you. We’ve outgrown pulling pigtails and acting up, but flirting still has fun and innocent qualities. Plus, being silly relieves tension. Start things out with a good time, even if it involves napkin origami or playing bottle cap table hockey.

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