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| Tips Section: Make Yourself 'Dateable' | |
| Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder |
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are few things that people are more sensitive about than their personal
appearance. The sad truth is that not everyone can be a supermodel. Not
everyone can win a galaxy-wide ugly contest, either; most people fall
somewhere in the middle. But everyone — men and women alike — is
paranoid about looks, and weight is perhaps the most sensitive of
sensitive issues. Almost everyone has some complaint.
Thin wasn’t always in When it comes to the feminine figures men find attractive, there is no right or wrong. So long as the woman in question isn’t so thin or so heavy that she’s in physiological danger, I could care less about personal taste. Some men are attracted to women who carry a little more weight. Some men are attracted to women who are plainly overweight. Some prefer slender figures. Enter the cultural
imperative I’m not interested in the health issues associated with weight except to say that it’s inappropriate for women to be encouraged to go too far in either direction. The point is that men are not all cut from the same dough; taste is utterly subjective and should not be dictated in any way by what’s “in style” right now. Style is really nothing more than an attempt on the part of a minority to influence what they believe the majority thinks is fashionable — and sometimes they’re wrong. There is no shame in being attracted to whatever you’re attracted to. The worst mistake you could make is to allow yourself to be misled by social propaganda into believing that you’re not right in the head if you don’t find 100-pound women to be the ideal physical form. Go for what you want, never encourage ill health, and depend on the fashion mags only when you need cologne samples to rub on yourself. Search for local singles and meet your match today! Matthew Sakey, Match.comView Photos of Singles .... Click here! Back to Top |
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