When you are trying to make a first-rate first impression, what kind of look do you go for?

Sexy, younger, older, smarter… there are plenty of options for that initial date. But guys and girls can’t lose with the romantic look.

Like beauty, everyone’s idea of romance is different. Your job is to pick a look that works for you, and most importantly, makes you feel romantic. If you don’t feel it, you can’t work it!

Need help? We've put together six great ways for girls and guys to look their best:

Women
1. Go girly.
It’s sexy, romantic and fun. Vintage is very feminine and very hot right now. Look for flower, lace and turquoise accents in ruffled blouses, slip tops and clingy skirts.

 

 

2. Show off.
Bare those beautiful legs with a flowing skirt or dress and strappy sandals or high heels. Tip: Douse your legs with body oil for a sexy glimmer! Remember, feminine is what you’re going for here.

 

3. Turn heads.
Bright red lipstick and dark (charcoal, brown, blue) eyes make a pooped look pop. But don’t cake it on — use your finger or a brush to lightly swipe on some color. Top off those red lips with a coat of sheer gloss for a seductive pout. Bonus: You need very little color on the cheeks with this look!

Guys
1. Consider her tastes.
Sometimes women’s ideas of romance come straight from a fashion magazine. Try a sweater over a cuffed shirt with a tie or a dressy black turtleneck. Couple it with black slacks and patent leather shoes. An all black ensemble, whether formal or dressy, is a classic.

 

 

2. Go casual.
For a more casual look, wear an open linen or cotton shirt with a tank top underneath (no gold necklaces, please!). Pair it with loose-fitting black pants. Complete the outfit with a classy pair of sandals.

 

3. Sell yourself.
Steam up your sex appeal with small touches — maybe a flower in your jacket lapel or a subtle cologne. Sometimes just the right stance or a twinkle in the eye will do the trick.

If you’re not sure what style best suits you, ask a friend’s advice. But whatever look you go for, above all, be comfortable. Your style should be a reflection of your personality. And you can't pull off a look, romantic or otherwise, if others can tell you’re not comfortable in it yourself.

Search for local singles today and show off your new romantic look!

Susan Hayden, Match.com