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| Character Traits For Success |
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take a look at the traits you should develop to increase your chances
with women. For each trait I will give an explanation of why it is
important and what you can do to improve upon it. Confidence: Why: We have already discussed, in the first few paragraphs, why confidence is important. It is the number one thing that girls are attracted to in a man. Insecurity is not sexy. It is the number one turn off. How: To increase your confidence, challenge yourself physically. Dress your best. Believe me, when you feel like you look the best, it does wonders for your confidence. Do not be afraid of not succeeding, it will actually make you more confident by desensitizing you to failure. Know what you are going to do and never hesitate, be in control of everything. Stop needing women, have hobbies that are more important. Finally, do not put yourself down. As we said earlier, you are what you think. Challenge: Why: Everyone loves a challenge. Girls do not want a guy who will always be there. Why would they want something that they can take whenever they want? Challenge also helps you be the man in the relationship, it puts you in control. How: To be a challenge you must not give in to her every desire. Have patience. Do not always be available, and appear that you have other options besides her, even if you do not. Do not reveal everything about yourself, but make her want to find out more about you. Most importantly, make her wonder where she stands with you. Patience: Why: This will make you appear as more of a challenge to girls. You will not appear needy because you take your time and look as though you are preoccupied with other things, possibly other girls. How: Patience is not hard to develop. You just need to have self discipline and make it a point to take your time with girls. Do not try to rush things or you will appear needy. No Desperation: Why: Being desperate will never get you a girl. Think how you would feel about a girl if she was always giving you attention. If she called you all the time, talked to you every opportunity she had, told you everything about herself, was always available for you, and would never leave. You would realize that you do not have to do anything to impress her because she has very high interest in you and wont leave. Also think about it this way. Think of the girls you are interested in. I guarantee that none of them have these traits. Girls feel the same way. They are interested in guys who are the opposite of this. How: Simply do not do the things mentioned above, do the opposite. Humor: Why: Humor ranks very high on the list of what girls find attractive about a guy. I am not telling you to memorize jokes to be funny, that will seldom work. What you need to do is be witty. Develop a sense of humor. How: This can be done by educating yourself so that you have a large vocabulary and know more topics, and by being observant and finding funny things to make a timely comment about. You must also be happy. A pathetic, whining person is funny to mock, but they do not have a humorous personality. A great way to be funny is to do something unexpected. People will find it hilarious that you had the nerve to do such a thing. Appearance: Why: I would be lying to tell you that looks do not matter because they do, just not as much as a girl’s looks matter to a guy. Nobody is attracted to an ugly, sloppy mess, but do not worry, it is very easy to improve your appearance. How: You can start by getting a new hairstyle if you do not like yours. Go to a real salon and get advice on what would look good. Make a point to exercise regularly. Aside from building your confidence, you will look better when you are tone and in shape. Girls find a tan guy much sexier than a pale guy, so buy some sunless tanner, go to a tanning booth, or sit in the sun. Teeth are very important to a girl. If you have bad teeth, consider getting them fixed. If you have discolored teeth, consider getting them whitened (click here to get free information on teeth whitening). The easiest way to improve your appearance is to update your wardrobe. Bring a female friend shopping with you that can help you pick out clothes that would look good on you, and always dress as nice as you can, people will notice. Making only some of these changes in your appearance will produce huge changes in the way people react to you. Who knows, maybe girls will even approach you for a change. ManMindset.com Man Mindset - Men's Seduction Advice View Photos of Singles .... Click here! Back to Top |
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