Women have always known that few things dispel the mystery of a man quicker than observing how he interacts with his mother, but for all the telling pop references to "momma's boys" and "daddy's girls," men searching for what makes women tick consistently overlook the obvious: Women have mothers too.

Invariably there's a mother's weighty influence somewhere in your girl's past — or more likely her present. And if you really want to understand what drives her, that's where you will find your answers.

Easier said than done you say? Well, if you can't take the heat, you certainly should stay out of her mother's kitchen. But if you are willing to suffer the limelight and possibly a bland dinner or two, the insights you gain about your new gal may be the difference between eating and running and sticking around for dessert.

Here are five secrets her mom can tell you about your could-be cuddlebug:

1. Married with children
   Men, like mothers, invariably assume every woman considers marriage and children an option at some point. Whether true or not in the scenario at hand, sit back and let mother work her magic. She has decades of experience squeezing information out of her daughter and probably wants to know as badly as you do.
   
   
2. Ambition
   Sure you are both working long hours and she graduated at the top of her class, but is she willing to stick with you if you stick around? Her Mom has been with her from soccer practice to stock market. Get her opinion on everything past, present and future before signing on for the long haul.
   
   
3. Dark little secrets
   The past, at least a version of it you have never heard, usually makes an appearance or two at family gatherings. Keep your eyes and ears open, especially when the photo album comes off the shelf. It may speak volumes — or at least explain your new girl's fashion sense.
   
   
4. Material girl
   Regardless of pop music trends, most women shared their views of the material world with their mothers long before Madonna came along. Getting a mother alone in the corner and asking about her daughter's opinions on old boyfriends, jewelry and fancy cars, etc., can open your eyes or put your mind at ease.
   
   
5. Her hot buttons
   Whether she was the first to find them or she installed them herself, a mother is an expert at pushing her daughter's buttons. Whether you are more interested in knowing where to look in the event of a meltdown or what to avoid at all costs, a little time observing the master at work can go a long way.
   
   

Now you're prepared to meet mom for the first time. Or if you're still looking for a sweetie with secrets, try a quick search today!