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| How To Act On A Date |
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Do
you know how to act on a date to get a girl attracted to you? Most guys
have no clue. They think all you need to do is be nice to the girl, give
her what she wants, and be a gentleman. This type of behavior is
counterproductive. You must continue to be a challenge, but before you
can start raising her interest level, you must get her on a date. Do not call the girl and ask her on a date. Instead, ask her to accompany you on something that you are already doing. You must not make it look like you are asking her for a date. It is only a get together, meaning something inexpensive and she pays for herself. Make sure you end the date before she does instead of letting it drag on to the awkward time when she says she has to go home. You are in control of the evening. End it while the conversation is still good, leaving her wanting more of you. Also, make the get together on a weekend night, this makes you look busy on the weekends, makes it seems as though you are involved with other girls, implies a casual atmosphere, you have better odds that she will be free for the night, and you get to make her boring weeknight fun. Consider going on inexpensive dates such as playing a sport together, renting a movie and cooking dinner with her at your home, or going to a coffee shop for some stimulating conversation. While you are dating a particular girl, you need to act a certain way to raise her interest level. Never pass on a girl that already has a high level of interest. She will not stay interested forever and the window of opportunity will close. If you are interested in her, remain a challenge and do not become infatuated with her. She is attracted to your current attitude, but if you change, she will lose attraction. The worst thing that you could do is fall into her friend zone, while you constantly want a more romantic relationship. I am sure this has happened to you before. You meet a woman, but do not have the courage to go for what you want. As a result, the two of you become good friends. You spend the next several months building a fantasy of your relationship that does not actually exist. She only sees you as a good friend. You cannot approach other girls because you are convinced that she is the one for you, and if you are with another girl you will miss the chance with her. Finally, you have had enough and decide to tell her your feelings. This scares her away because she never saw the two of you that way. You panic because she has destroyed your fantasy, and you begin to tell her how much you love her and why you should be together. You can only fix this by forcing yourself to go out and meet other girls. You will then look back on the way you acted, and laugh. Who knows, maybe she will notice your new attitude as well as the girls you are with and develop feelings for you. One of the best ways to get a girl initially attracted to you is to show her what you have to offer, show her some attention, and then take this attention away. You do this by showing her all of your positive traits, showing her that you are fun to be with, and making her want to be with you more. By withdrawing the attention she will become confused as to why you did that, and she will want it back. You will appear more worthy to her, more of a challenge, and more powerful. The reason for giving the initial attention is so that she is aware of what she is missing out on once you take it away. If you just start off by ignoring her, it will not have any effect because she will not be aware of what she lost. Eye contact will make her much more attracted to you. It indicates confidence and creates a feeling of being in love. Eye contact can be intimidating, so combine it with a smile to let her know that you like what you see and you are interested. The absolute most important aspect of making a girl attracted to you is the use of Kino. Kino is any form of touch. It affects her subconscious. She should be thinking about what the two of you are doing, not that you are touching her. Kino will save you from the friend zone by establishing yourself as a sexual being. Friction must be incorporated with Kino. A simple tap touch has no effect, but adding a little rub will send warmth through her body. Also, never look at your hand when initiating Kino. This is a sign of uncertainty. If she hands you something small, slide your hand over hers as you grab the object. If she does not want you to touch her, she will make it clear. Likewise, if she is interested in you, she will touch you back. You need to get her to notice you without thinking that what you are doing is strange. Do not pre-plan your Kino. It should come to you on the spot. Similarly, do not think about the touch after you have implemented it. Perform the touches slowly instead of rushing it, nervous people do things too fast to hide their nervousness. Use small subtle touches, intruding on her comfort level a little more each time. If you intrude too much you will make things awkward, but if you don’t intrude at all, she will consider you a good friend. Each time you touch her, she will get more used to your touch. When she touches you back, this is you queue to intrude on her comfort level even more. Kino creates a challenge because she does not know whether or not you really like her. You are not like other men who usually would not touch. If you do not use Kino, you are respecting her barriers too much and are never challenging her. This maintains the barriers, and you will never progress your relationship with her. You will be put into her friend category because you are reinforcing the no touching barriers. The following are some common signs of interest. If the girl is showing a lot of these signs, it probably means you are doing something right in trying to get her attracted to you She compliments you on anything She asks you to repeat yourself to make sure she hears what you say She laughs at your lame jokes She touches you (You should then touch her back in an equal place) She stays put when you leave She comes back to you after she leaves She asks where you are going when you leave She smiles a lot at you She makes a lot of eye contact with you She asks your friends about you She tries to make friends with your friends This article discussed how to handle a date with a woman. Most importantly it showed how to raise a girl’s interest in you. ManMindset.com Man Mindset - Men's Seduction Advice View Photos of Singles .... Click here! Back to Top |
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