Are you destined to be single or just inches away from coupledom? From 0 to 100, what’s your love score? The higher your score, the more relationship-ready you are!

1. A guy at a party asks you to dance. Sadly, he’s not your type. What do you say?
a. No. That’ll send the wrong signal to the people you actually are interested in.
b. Yes. What have you got to lose? He could turn out to be a catch.
c. Yes, please! Your dance card is tragically open.

2. Would you go out with someone who didn’t appear to meet your financial or educational expectations?
Yes or No

3. You’ve met someone online and have been emailing for a while. Your could-be sweetie asked to meet you but you’re nervous. What gives?
a. You’re worried he or she will figure out that picture you sent was twenty years old.
b. You’re not exactly nervous — just excited about meeting someone new.
c. You’re concerned he or she won’t actually like you in person.

4. Do you make or enjoy jokes about men being immature pigs or about women being high-maintenance prima donnas?
Yes or No

5. When it comes to dating, you:
a. Expect other singles to flock to you.
b. Are confident and accessible — and aren’t afraid to initiate contact.
c. Break out in hives.

6. Do you find yourself dating the same type of person over and over, even though it never works out?
Yes or No

7. The best relationships start like this:
a. You’re in bed together as quick as lightning.
b. There are sparks that makes you want to learn more.
c. If you play with fire, you’ll get burned.

8. Are you still pining over a lost love?
Yes or No

9. When you visualize your dream relationship, it looks like this:
a. A steamy relationship full of passion and intensity.
b. A long-term relationship that’s equal emotionally and physically fulfilling.
c. A partnership that helps you progress as a person.

10. A healthy, vibrant relationship is the result of two well-rounded individuals who celebrate their similarities and differences.
True or False

 

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Question 1
a. 2 points. You’re a little shallow, aren’t you? It’s a dance, not a marriage proposal.
b. 10 points. You’re accessible and have an open mind.
c. 5 points. You get pity points for taking the chance.

Question 2
Yes = 10 points, No = 0 points

Standards are good, but use them as a guide — not a straightjacket. If you dismiss people based on these criteria, you not only narrow your choices, you might miss out on someone who’s got tons of other fabulous qualities that would more than make up for the perceived deficit.

Question 3
a. 2 points. You haven’t even met, but you’re already misleading him or her. This doesn’t bode well for a relationship.
b. 10 points. You’ve got the right attitude and are open to the possibilities. Search for local singles today!
c. 5 points. Focus on the fact that he or she likes you enough to want to meet you and be philosophical about the rest. After all, the only way to find out if your nascent friendship has the necessary physical spark is to meet in person.

Question 4
Yes = 0 points, No = 10 points

If you see more truth than humor in these kinds of jokes, you’re likely sending off a bitter or cynical vibe. And very few people want to be around that for very long. Trash that attitude and be more positive.

Question 5
a. 5 points. Whoa. Throttle back that ego, kid. Self-confidence is sexy — arrogance isn’t. Don’t cross the line or you could turn people off.
b. 10 points. You’re self-possessed enough to know that you’re date-worthy — whether you do the asking or someone else does. That’s attractive. Subscribe to contact other members and strike up a match!
c. 2 points. You’ve got a self-esteem problem here. If you perceive it, others might believe it. Look for the good in you and celebrate it — then others will too!

Question 6
Yes = 0 points, No = 10 points

If there’s a clear pattern in your dating life that leads to disaster, it’s time to reevaluate your choices. Every relationship won’t last, but if yours constantly go up in flames, you might want to seek professional help to learn to make better choices and understand your motives.

Question 7
a. 2 points. A kick-ass passion play can result in great sex, but often the flame goes out as quickly as it ignites.
b. 10 points. A little heat indicates potential emotional and physical interest and is worth checking out. Try a quick search to get you started!
c. 5 points. You get points for questioning the lasting value of lightning, but if you’re afraid of a few sparks, you may never build a healthy relationship.

Question 8
Yes = 0 points, No = 10 points

As long as your head and heart are preoccupied with a past relationship, you won’t have room for a new one. Recovery takes time, but check yourself into romance rehab so you can get on with your life!

Question 9
a. 5 points. Nothing’s wrong with passion and intensity, but a solid relationship requires a healthy dose of respect and stability that can be hard to come by in this scenario.
b. 10 points. A partnership that meets your emotional and physical needs has a much better chance of lasting.
c. 5 points. Growth is crucial, but make sure you’re not looking for a coach or teacher instead of a lover.

Question 10
True = 10 points, False = 0 points

If you truly believe it, you can achieve it! If you don’t, take a look at why and then attempt to address your issues so you can focus on getting into a healthy and strong relationship!