Suspicious that your señor is a player? Worried that your Don Juan is a definite don't?

Stop fretting and start taking control of your love life. Our five quick questions will help you tell if it's time to commit or time to quit.

Don't make a decision until you learn the score: Is your guy playing games with you?

A. After going out a few times, you realize you still don't have his phone number. You ask, and he

1. Hands it over immediately.
2. Says he got rid of his land line and only uses the cell.
3. Says he's never home anyway so you don't really need it.

B. He repeatedly makes dates with you and

1. Arrives on time.
2. Shows up late.
3. Cancels at the last minute.

C. You call or email him a few times this week. He

1. Returns the call or email promptly.
2. Gets around to it, but it takes a little longer than you like.
3. Says he didn't get the message and makes a lame excuse (computer's on the blink, roommate didn't write it down).

D. Your sex life has been satisfying for both of you. Recently, he

1. Seems as turned on and sated as usual.
2. Asks to try some new things.
3. Has lost interest.

E. He rarely invites you to his place. When asked why he says,

1. "You've been there; it's a wreck. But if you don't mind, we can hang out there more."
2. "My roommate's a pig, and I don't want you to have to hang around with him."
3. "Why does it matter where we hang out?"

 

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The lower the score, the more gamier the guy. Search for local singles today!

A. Deceptive with the digits.

1. 10 points. It's entirely possible he just forgot to give it to you.
2. 5 points. Lots of people are going cellular.
3. 0 points. This is a lame excuse.

B. Perilous patterns.

1. 10 points. Punctuality is very sexy.
2. 5 points. Probably an age-old habit. Ask him to try to break it.
3. 0 points. He's blatantly disregarding the value of your time. Not a good sign.

C. Ready for his response.

1. 10 points. Courtesy is king.
2. 5 points. He could be very busy this week — or he could be avoiding you.
3. 0 points. Another lame excuse. He's not respecting you much.

D. Bad vibes in the bedroom.

1. 10 points. Lucky you: Good sex is a good sign.
2. 5 points. He may be feeling more comfortable with you now and is ready to expand your sexual play. Conversely, trying new things can be a sign he's doing that same thing with someone else.
3. 0 points. A serious change in desire could be a medical malady, but more often than not, it's a sign he's getting his needs met elsewhere.

E. Pampering your prince.

1. 10 points. You may well have a nicer pad than his, but he realizes it's important to you.
2. 5 points. He could be telling you the truth — or he could be trying to keep his "lives" separate.
3. 0 points. This defensive response is a signal he's got something to hide or at the very least has some issues about your coming over.