The official day of romance may be over, but if there’s romance in your heart, every day’s a good day to display it. Don’t keep it locked up or hidden in the shadows, and don’t put it away for a year. Expose it to the sunshine, express it and let it bloom.

A romantic soul like yours can easily come up with ways to continue the courtship, for that’s what it really is. It’s like winning your partner’s heart all over again each time you do something special. There’s no better reward than to elicit that look, that smile, that glow. Your efforts will be appreciated, but it’s really no effort at all because it all comes naturally. You don’t need a designated day; romance is as easy as breathing.

A self-made romantic
I know there are those of you who feel that all this romance stuff is so bubble-gum sweet it makes your teeth hurt. How many times do you have to say it and show it? Can’t it just be understood?

No. Love requires attention, and romance is the way to do it. If it’s difficult for you, then you have to try twice as hard. But the good thing is that your partner probably knows you’re not “naturally” romantic, so you’re likely to get twice the rewards for trying.

Stumped for ways to be romantic? Easy. Just remember that Valentine’s gifts are suitable any day of the year. Flowers. Candy. Any shiny little bauble will do. Never underestimate the power of small gestures.

Pay compliments, hold hands, look deeply into each other’s eyes and listen with sincere attention. Ask your honey for a date even if you’ve been dating awhile. The goal is to do something special for your match. Romance will keep you connected, and those unexpected romantic gestures will help you retain the intensity of your first meeting.

Search for local singles, and long live your romance!

Fernando Luera, Match.com